I would like to introduce you to Sandra.
Sandra and I have worked together for over a decade now. We share a love for documenting our lives via journaling, scrap booking and blogging.
Sandra tells her story over at
Just Haven't Met You Yet where she is passionate about becoming a family of four. Well 5 including their furry friend.
Recently, Sandra found out that God has chosen to bless them with baby Kylie all the way from China. The desire that was dropped in their hearts some time ago for adoption, now has a beautiful little face.
Welcome Sandra!
~ How To Fly a Kite ~
I am honored Anna asked me to write for her blog today. Anna and I have worked together for a while now and I respect her greatly as a Godly wife and mother. So THANK YOU Anna! I’m so excited to be here!
I am sure you are all wondering what in the world the title is all about. Well, I had the most interesting lesson not too long ago.
A while back, while visiting Chattanooga, my daughter, Jenna, used "her money" to buy a kite from the local toy store. Now, it's been YEARS and I do mean many, many years since I've flown a kite. Living in Tennessee, I guess there's not really many days that would provide the climate for flying a kite. I think both, my husband and I, were looking forward to giving it a whirl. Jenna must have also been excited because she had driven us crazy ever since we got back to get this kite flying. Finally, we took the kite with our friends, to the local park. We put the thing together and discovered there wasn't really a good place to fly it.
It wasn’t long until we had a day where the wind was up and we decided to head to the church parking lot about an hour before evening activities and see if we couldn't get this thing to fly. At our church, there is a back parking lot that is completely empty and mostly free from trees, poles, wires etc. We got the kite out and let out the string and waited for the wind to take it. It didn't get up in the air immediately, so we walked across the parking lot, waited for a gust of wind and then took off at full speed, running against the wind, letting out the string waiting for the wind to catch it. Time after time we tried. Finally, we decided that I would sit in the back of the truck bed with the kite while my husband drove into the wind hoping that it would catch and the kite would go up. Obviously, that didn't work, not to mention it being dangerous (and funny to boot!).
But I wasn't ready to give up. I was determined to get this dang kite up for the sake of my child OR BUST! So, back and forth I went, running against the wind trying everything I know to do to get this kite up in the air. After a dozen tries (or more), I was extremely frustrated and a bit disappointed. Then I started praying..."Come on God...just a little wind. Do this for my little girl. I know You care about these little things. I know You are there. Do this to show HER You can." And I'd take off running against the wind again. Over and over and the kite never would get more than my height up in the air. Finally, I thought, "OK, just one more try...this is it." And...nothing. I started winding up the string and felt a gust of wind coming. But I was tired. I was tired of running against the wind and trying and trying everything in my power to get this kite flying just to see it fall to the ground.
And then it hit me. STAND STILL. So I did. I just stood there with one arm hanging to my side, one straight out in front of me and watched. And to my amazement...the kite started going up. Up and up and up as high as the kite had been all day long! I could hardly believe my eyes.
That's when I realized it. It's the same with me and God. I am determined to do something that I want to do. Determined to make things go my way. I run against the wind watching whatever it is that I'm trying so desperately to do fall flat time and time again. But yet, I am not ready to give up. I just keep fighting against the wind...until I'm too tired to fight anymore. And that's when I am quiet enough to hear God saying to me, "Just. Stand. Still." And in that quiet moment, when I have exhausted myself doing it MY way, I stand still and watch in amazement as God takes my kite high in the air. Higher than I ever was able to get it. Higher than it ever went when I was trying all my tricks.
It was as clear to me in that moment that the kite was flying, as ever in my life. If I will just stop trying so hard and be STILL, God will bless me more than I can ask or imagine and send my kite airborne. But I have to learn to be still and to quit trying to run against the wind. Sometimes the only way to hear is to be still.
The kite never did really get all the way into the air, just as in life things don't always end up as we imagined they would be. But Jenna didn't know the difference.
To her...the kite flew and that was all that mattered.
Thank you again Anna for letting me share a little piece of my world with your readers!
Thank you Sandra for sharing your experience with us. I love it when God uses everyday things to drop faith in our hearts. It's something I've prayed for recently, for God to show me Him in everyday simple things. It's amazing when it happens. Also, I just know my readers will continue to pray for your journey to adoption. We can't wait to meet little Kylie once she makes it to the US.
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Blessings,
Anna